The recent street party held by the
local Empowering Deaf Society (EDS) offered a glimpse of a whole new world.
Attending, I was struck by how
everyone was communicating via sign language. If you did not have sign language
you were an outsider.
Founder of EDS, Mangai Sutharsan, made
the point that this was how deaf people often felt in day to day society when
they can so often be excluded.
This struck a real nerve, as I have
had worsening hearing over recent years.
It was only a couple of years ago
though that I actually went to the doctor to have it checked out. He forwarded
me onto the audio department, who did a test that took about 10 minutes. The
outcome, I was borderline for hearing aids. So I accepted the offer.
That was it. Over the ensuing couple
of years I have come to use the hearing aids more but do not find them
comfortable or that effective.
It has been interesting though to
observe society around me. I’ve done quite a lot of work over the years, as a
journalist, on equality issues. Disabilities has been one strand of that work.
However, despite all the articles, conferences etc, you never quite appreciate
disability until you actually have one.
The stage that my hearing loss is at
means that if people speak clearly and directly to me, I can hear fine. But
softly spoken people are difficult to hear. Also people speaking off to the
side or in an aside are difficult to fathom. Sub-titles on TV are helpful.
It can be embarrassing to keep asking
people to repeat what they are saying. This can mean pretending that you have
heard, when you haven’t.
You also notice in others, who may
have a hearing problem but do not wish to acknowledge the condition. The tell tale
trying to look as though they have heard and understood, when they clearly
haven’t.
It has been possible, with declining
hearing capacity to really appreciate what Mangai meant when she referred to how
many deaf people feel excluded in everyday society. The condition can be socially
isolating but doesn’t need to be.
So much could be done to remedy these
problems, if our society really took disabilities seriously. Sound systems at
meetings, people speaking directly towards who they are addressing rather than
the back of heads, the provision of signing.
The number of meetings I attend
where the shout comes up from the back “can’t hear.” In the past, I have often
regarded these utterances, often made with more than a hint of irritation, as a
bit rude. Now, I really understand where the people are coming from.
On a lighter note there can be some
hilarious moments, when you mis-hear things. Also, sometimes what is being said
is just not worth hearing anyway. However, all in all loss of hearing is a very
frustrating and excluding business.
There are services in our society to
make life better for the 9 million plus in our country who have hearing
problems.
The work of charities like EDS is so
vital in advancing the cause of those with hearing difficulties.
However, so much more could be done
in our communities, to really help those with hearing difficulties and other
disabilities. If we really seek to be an inclusive society then the needs of
the disabled need to be factored into all elements of life. Failure to do so
means what we are practicing tokenism, gesturing towards inclusivity, but in
reality failing at so many levels.
*published Wanstead & Woodford Guardian - 6/9/2018
Morning Star - 18/9/2018