Christmas is a time to be nice

Christmas is the season of peace and goodwill. A time when people come together to celebrate. Never have such sentiments been more needed. It sometimes seems like we live in a world of aggressive intent. Social media has helped foster these attitudes. People seem to think it is fine just to attack others, often online, who they have usually never met. The anger that flies off the keyboard is amazing to behold. Some seem to just have to get the angst off their chest. It has always been my line as a local councillor to deal with issues if I can, and if they come under the council remit. If they don't, then I will try to direct the individual concerned to those who can help. What we are not here for is to just be shouted at. We are not here to absorb others anger, which they need to let out somewhere. Thankfully, this is something that does not happen that often. There is though growing anger toward those involved in public life. They have become targets of hate, as was tragically seen with the murders of MPs David Amess and Jo Cox in recent years. It now seems incredible that a few years ago there were no gates on Downing Street or elaborate security around the Palace of Westminster. Politicians mixed freely amongst the public. Attitudes only began to change at the end of the 1970s. The changes are the terrible conclusion of a hate filled society, constantly looking for someone to blame. The media does not help in this respect. This always trying to nail someone, get them sacked or removed, individualising every problem, rather than looking to the underlying issues. The behaviour of many in public life, as seen with the expenses scandal a few years ago and the constant stream of those in public office seemingly not coming up to the standards required, has helped fuel the anger. There seems to have been a break down in trust between those in power and those they purport to represent. This will take a long time to repair but it must be fixed. That said, the vast majority of those who serve in public office are decent people doing it for the right reasons. Unfortunately, the few bad apples tend to tarnish everyone. Moving forward, can we all be a little kinder and understanding of others. Join debates and discussions with an open mind, with respect for the other person, no matter how much you may disagree with them. Try a little kindness. On the plus side we do read everyday of incredible acts of kindness and generosity. Christmas is a time to celebrate such things and look to do more positive things toward each other. Let's give it a try? Happy Christmas.